Friday, July 20, 2012

P.S. Body Beautiful: Failure is part of the process

P.S. Body Beautiful: Failure is part of the process: Quote of the Day: Life didnt end cause I failed, it was enhanced because I didnt give up. Hello Curvy Divas, The issue of failure is a...

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Failure is part of the process

Quote of the Day: Life didnt end cause I failed, it was enhanced because I didnt give up.


Hello Curvy Divas,

The issue of failure is always a touchy subject. No one wants to be reminded of the goals they never achieved or the ones never attempted due to fear. What about the relationships that didnt work, that dream job you missed because you messed up on the interview. If we think back over our life, I'm sure there a million things you wish you could do over. *raises hand* I know I do. But as I reflect on my 30 + years, I've realized that each failure has taught me something.

Sometimes failure teaches us not to repeat a behavior, to try a new approach, or even reconsider why we are even participating in such an activity. About a year ago, I went through a period where I really hated my job. I mean each day complaining to my partner about what foolishness happened that day. One day I was in a staff meeting and I had an epiphany, why are you doing something that makes you so miserable. So long story short, I quit. Initially it was such a relief because I did not have the everyday stress. Eventually reality set in shortly after, when I was unable to secure a new job immediately and my bills continued to grow. I began to second guess and beat myself up, questioning if I made the right decision.

What I learned:
1. Dont act on emotion (because it will change eventually and you are stuck with the consequences)
2. Have a plan after you make a decision.
3. Things I dont want in a job (now I can pursue an occupation that fits my ideal)
4. Never Allow Fear to keep you from acting. (Fear is the opposite of Faith)
5. Life is too short to be anything but happy!!! (dont allow yourself to get comfortable with being unhappy)

The opportunity to learn and grow is ALWAYS available. Take the time to assess your current situation and how you can improve it. Make a plan and stick with it. Unless it's not working, in which you reassess your methods to reach your goal. It is my desire that whatever your "failure" may be, that you view it as a learning opportunity to motivate change in your life.

Until next time.

Be Strong. Be Confident. Be You.


Sincerely,

Sinnamon
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Friday, July 13, 2012

P.S. Body Beautiful: pLUS SIZE OOTD: ANIMAL INSTINCT

P.S. Body Beautiful: pLUS SIZE OOTD: ANIMAL INSTINCT: Hello Curvy Divas, I just wanted to do a quick post to show you my new hair. I did a big chop and colored in ruby red(actually has a more ...

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pLUS SIZE OOTD: ANIMAL INSTINCT

Hello Curvy Divas,

I just wanted to do a quick post to show you my new hair. I did a big chop and colored in ruby red(actually has a more orange tone). The chop was after my attempt to go natural and let my hair grow out. After a few weeks of my teenie weenie afro, I couldnt take it anymore and now I'm rocking a brush cut. Its absolutely AMAZING because I can just brush and go. Let me know what you think. Also check out my outfit of the day to match my new hair.


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Shirt: Thrifted, Blk Bodycon Skirt: Old Navy, Sandals: Kmart




Until Next time.

Be Strong. Be Confident. Be You.


Sincerely,

Sinnamon


Thursday, July 12, 2012

P.S. Body Beautiful: SHOP MY PLUS SIZE CLOSET (preview)

P.S. Body Beautiful: SHOP MY PLUS SIZE CLOSET (preview): Quote of the Day: No matter what a woman looks like, if she's confident, she's sexy.-Paris Hilton Hello My Curvy Divas, Oh how I've m...

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SHOP MY PLUS SIZE CLOSET (preview)

Quote of the Day: No matter what a woman looks like, if she's confident, she's sexy.-Paris Hilton


Hello My Curvy Divas,

Oh how I've missed ya. Real Life has been in full effect so I havent had a chance to blog and take pics. But today I have something special for you. As I've been advertising on My Facebook page, this FRIDAY*FRIDAY*FRIDAY*FRIDAY you will now have the chance to SHOP MY CLOSET. First up will be shoes and clutches and a few clothing items. Most of the shoes are size 10 and 11.(great day for you ladies who have trouble finding cute shoes in your size). I usually wear a size 10 but my foot is wide and going up a size has been the solution. For those who have smaller feet dont worry because I will have clothing ranging from size XL(14-16) up to a 2X(18-20).

Initially I couldnt decide on price so........ you choose the price(THAT NEVER HAPPENS). How it will work. I will post an album on my facebook page titled SHOP MY CLOSET. There will be pics of the item and size. Each item is named so you will have a chance to identify those items you are interested in. Inbox me on Facebook which items you are interested in, the price you are willing to pay, and your email address. At the end of the day I will choose the highest bidder and send an actual invoice for payment giving you 24hrs to pay before I relist the item. I will attempt to keep an up to date status on each item(e.g. pending payment or sold). In the event of a tie all parties will be notified and given the opportunity to rebid.

If you are not in the MD/DC area please note a shipping charge will apply. I will combine shipping for multiple items, provide delivery confirmation tracking, and utilize the most affordable shipping method available. Those in the MD/DC area, you are in luck because I will deliver.

So check out the selections and continue to check back often as I continue to add additional items daily. check out some of the items that will be featured below. After you've chosen what you want please encourage your friends to add me on facebook to shop and because I have some additional give-a-ways and contests coming up in August. Good luck and happy bidding.

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Be Strong. Be Confident. Be You.

Sincerely,

Sinnamon

Friday, June 29, 2012

P.S. Body Beautiful: Papparazzi, No pictures please!!!

P.S. Body Beautiful: Papparazzi, No pictures please!!!: Quote of the Day: I love it when ugliness is beautiful. I love character flaws. - Marcia Gay Hard Hello Curvy Divas, The end of the week...

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Papparazzi, No pictures please!!!

Quote of the Day: I love it when ugliness is beautiful. I love character flaws. - Marcia Gay Hard

Hello Curvy Divas,

The end of the week is here for some and just beginning for others. Either way I hope you make the best of it by letting your hair down and doing something just for YOU!!

Today and this weekend I will be on CELEBRITY MODE. That means I'm rocking sunglasses and avoiding all cameras. Why? Well, a lovely stye(or star as we use to say downsouth)  has appeared on my right eye and clouded my vision literally. It has grown from slight puffiness to a rather large hard lump on my eye. Initially I wanted to show a pic but after taking several and realizing that it looked a lumpy red mess, the better decision was to show myself with glasses. Excuse the right eye it's looking a bit lazy even under the glasses.
So this will be my look the remainder of the weekend. Sunglasses mixed with my new T.W.A.(teenie weenie afro).



See you next week for a special 4th of july edition and a SPECIAL SURPRISE JUST FOR YOU!!!

I'm too impatient to hold the secret so shhhhhh, here it is. After my 4th of july edition, I will have a blog takeover day next friday by a fellow plus size fashion blogger. I've spilled the beans already so I wont tell who or what she wants to discuss. Until next week.


The 10th Beauty of the Week is Theresa "babycakes" from Montgomery, Ohio. Congrats!!! lovely dress & accessories from Rainbow.


Be Strong. Be Confident. Be You.


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Sincerely,

Sinnamon

Friday, June 22, 2012

P.S. Body Beautiful: Heat Wave

P.S. Body Beautiful: Heat Wave: Quote of the Day: It's like the summers a natural afrodisiac. And with a pen and pad I compose this rhyme. To hit you and get you equipped f...

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Heat Wave

Quote of the Day: It's like the summers a natural afrodisiac. And with a pen and pad I compose this rhyme. To hit you and get you equipped for the summer time-Will Smith( lyrics to summertime)


Hello Curvy Divas,

I left damn near freezing temperatures in Cali to return to a heatwave in MD. Upon my return the temp has been either in the 100s or damn near close. I have some errands I want to run today so Im thinking cool. All white with a splash of color will always do the trick. Check out the outfit below.

This outfit combo is perfect when you attend an all white event and want to add some color. Red makes anything pop and the turquoise always makes me feel classy. Enjoy the combo of colors and the look minus the blazer. Enjoy your weekend and I look forward to chatting with you on next week.

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Sincerely,

Sinnamon



Red blazer-Rainbow, white tank-old navy, white capris-Ross




Shoes-Payless website(limited edition), necklace & bangles-rainbow




Congrats to the 9th Diva of the week,Benica from Mobile, Alabama. Dress-Cititrends, shoes-shoe show

P.S. Body Beautiful: California Dreaming

P.S. Body Beautiful: California Dreaming: Quote of the Day: All our dreams can come true, if we have the courage to pursue them.-Walt Disney  

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California Dreaming

Quote of the Day: All our dreams can come true, if we have the courage to pursue them.-Walt Disney

Hello Curvy Divas,

The last week has been CRAZEE. I celebrated my birthday, visited cali for a week, and currently still suffering from the change in time zones. I'm physically and mentally exhausted. I have laid in the bed for the last 2 days upon returning to MD just to return to a sense of normalcy. In addition to my bday it was also my besties bday, father's day, my friend's lil brother high school graduation and my sister and mother's bday respectfully. Sheesh, I'm surrounded by geminis. But that I dont mind because we are always a hoot to be around.

On to the Cali trip. I have ALWAYS wanted to live in Cali and this was my first opportunity to visit. The trip to cali made me realize several things. #1 I was not prepared to drive or walk up all those hills in northern cali(san francisco). #2 I would probably go seriously in debt because most stores are 2 or 3 levels. #3 Cali is seriously expensive. #4 The traffic and overpopulation is overwhelming. and #4 Cali can be cold as shit, even in the dead of summer. (make sure to pack a jacket if you go)  Although I truly enjoyed myself, I felt a week was not long enough to really "enjoy" all the city has to offer.  Yes I was able to see some of the sites (cable cars, the financial district, fisherman's wharf, china town, north beach, and even parts of oakland), but i did not get to ride a cable car, cross the golden gate bridge, or visit any clubs. I will definately put it back on my to do list.

Below you will find some pics from the trip and our diva of the week, my bff who shares my bday. Check back later today for the second blog post.

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Sincerely,

Sinnamon

The first collage shows the hills I had to climb, Pier on Fisherman's wharf, China town, hotel, and the after graduation party. Jacket-Target, tights-H&M xlarge, blk flats-payless, pink top thrifted.

The 2nd collage gives your a view of the city, bay bridge, my tank/ suv rental, traffic, my new favorite restaurant in Oakland(Pican,best brunch EVER), and pics of me with the graduate at the Greek Theatre.
black V neck tshirt-rainbow, cream tank and burgendy tights-H&M, multicolor dress-Kmart (LYS line), Blk/White dress-local boutique.



Our 8th diva of the week is Jama from Glen Burnie, MD. Her Khaki jumper is from Rainbow, sandals & bag from Gussini(local store), necklace-DOTS.



Friday, June 8, 2012

Change in post next week

Hello Curvy Divas,

On next week I will post on Wednesday due to my trip to Cali. Enjoy your weekend and "talk" with ya next weekend.

Be Strong. Be Confident. Be You.


Sincerely,

Sinnamon


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Animal Instinct

Quote of the Day: Confidence is contagious. So is a lack of Confidence. -Vince Lombardi


Hello Curvy Divas,

Summertime is here and I couldnt wait to broadcast my new bathing suit. It may be familiar to those who are fans of Forever 21+ online store. I did not take my own advice and purchase this when it initially came out. So I was bummed when it and the other cute selections were sold out immediately after being released. Shopping Rule #1, if you know you want it, dont WAIT. If you are unsure THEN you put it back and wait to see if it goes on sale or something. This time I was lucky and found it in the store(Baltimore, Mondawmin Mall). I love the fit, animal print, and color. I paired it with a sheer shirt I had in my closet.

Also I'm headed to California next week. I'll be there for close to 7 days and I'm thinking when I return, I'll showcase my version of a fatkini. so stay tuned. I hope you enjoyed both posts today and see you next week as we return with a topic and more pics. Have a great weekend!

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Be Strong. Be Confident. Be You.


Sincerely,

Sinnamon

Bathing Suit-Forever 21+, sheer top-Lane Bryant

I'm styling and profiling.

Bangles-Rainbow, Earrings-Forever 21, Pumps-Nine West courtesy of Burlington.

Our 7th Diva of the Week is Becky from St Louis, Missouri. Go Diva!!!





Vintage Vixen

Quote of the Day: Every generation laughs at the old fashions,but follows the new ones religiously.-Henry David Thoreau

Hello Curvy Divas,

Another week down, it's Friday and I know you are happy. This week there will be no topic featured. I wanted you to know I hear your feedback and this week I wanted to do less topic and more pics being that this IS a fashion blog. ;)  As I mentioned a while ago I wanted to step out of my comfort zone and try some vintage pieces. So today I'm featuring 2 vintage tops that I paired with some current pieces. As I come into my own, I have realized I like trends but most of all fashion is about what "FEELS" right to you. What feels right to me is mixing classic, vintage, and current trends to express my style. Although I usually go for sexy, comfort is also a priority. Enjoy the pics and look forward to blog #2 at lunchtime. See ya next week!

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Be Strong.  Be Confident. Be You.


Sincerely,

Sinnamon




Full Outfit:Thrifted(Blazer,vintage shirt, shorts, and nine west kitten heels) Earrings& Bangles-Rainbow


                                        Vintage top-thrifted, red bodycon skirt-Forever 21+

Bracelet-Ebay,Heels-Rugged wherehouse, Earrings-cant remember. clutch,necklace, & belt-thrifted.



6th Diva of the Week is Tiffany from Fort Lewis, Washington. Strut it Diva!
Pants-Catherine's. Top is actually a dress from Everything Curvy and Chic. Belt-Ashley Stewart.  Shoes (can't see them) black Nine West Wedges.

Friday, May 25, 2012

Mama say Mama sa MamaKusa

Quote of the Day: By the time a woman realizes her mother was right, she has a daughter who thinks she's wrong!!

Hello Curvy Divas,

A little over a week ago we celebrated Mother's Day. A day to honor our mothers for their love, kindness, and wisdom. Holidays are always bittersweet for me. I can celebrate being blessed with a healthy, happy mother, grandmother, AND great grandmother but my heart always goes out to my close friends who have lost their mothers and grandmothers. Also those who never really had a healthy relationship with their mother. That was one reason I decided to do this post. In addition the fact that MY mother requested since I was doing all this writing, I may as well write about her. lol So I decided to share with you the things I learned up until this point in my life. (some courtesy of my mom and others not so much)

Mama Taught me: always wear clean underwear, dont fall for the okie doke, never depend on a man, get your education, every chance you get do something nice for ya mama, selfishness will not get you into heaven, always wear a slip when you go to church, you dont need makeup, take a break when you need it, dont be afraid to try something new, dont be afraid to get a lil crazy sometimes, call your grandparents because they love hearing from you, and PRAY about every important decision in your life. Granted I've learned so much from my mom, directly and indirectly by simply observing. Then there are things she never covered like love, sex, failure, anxiety, courage, and what being independent really entails.

I remember my first sexual "encounter", it was with a guy I was in "like" with. No we werent dating and he made no promises to become my boyfriend but we messed around anyway because I REALLY liked him. What I learned: Never sacrifice my body or self worth as a means to justify how much I "like" someone. I also remember a time when the boy I was dating because so upset he struck me against the face. I never told anyone. What I learned: When somebody shows you who they are, believe them the first time.

There was another time when I was in a relationship that had run it's course. I wanted to leave but became comfortable. What I learned: There is a time for everything. A time to love, cry, hold on, and a time to let go. I LET GO! The Last Lesson I will share with you comes from Maya Angelo referenced in her book, Letter to My Daughter.
"The ship of my life may or may not be sailing on calm and amiable seas. The Challenging days of my existence may or may not be bright and promising. Stormy or sunny days, glorious or lonely nights, I maintain an attitude of gratitude. If I insist on being pessimistic, there is always tomorrow. Today I am blessed"

So what does one do if your mom never gave you advice or if your mom is no longer here? You learn from life. Life has always been the best teacher. Its funny how life will place people in your path to teach you exactly what you need to know. That is if you are open to learn! That's all for today ladies, enjoy the weekend and acknowledge those mother(s) in your life.

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Be Strong. Be Confident. Be You.


Sincerely,

Sinnamon


Purple Dress: Ross($7.99), belt & nude pumps (burlington), leopard bracelet(thrifted). Nail Color:(Kleancolor in Pastel Teal)





Our 5th Diva of the Week is Dionna from the nation's capital(Washington,DC). Beautiful Blue Jumper(Ashley Stewart), Blk Boyfriend Blazer(Avenue), Shoes(barefootess.com) shoes click here , Earrings,watch, & ring (Ashley Stewart), Blk & diamond cuff bracelet (thrifted).

Friday, May 18, 2012

Musical Orgasm

Quote of the Day: Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away. - Maya Angelou

Hello Curvy Divas,

Musical Orgasm: an experience in where one is moved by music to a level of consciousness which is characterized by feelings of ecstasy, omniscience, immortality, and sublime understanding. It does not, however, refer to a sexual thrill, nor is it characterized by emission of seminal fluid. -via Urban Dictionary.

The recent deaths of music legends like Whitney Houston,Etta James, Chuck Brown, and Donna Summers have left a void in my heart. It has resulted in hours of reminiscing. I play their songs over and over and think about what I was doing when I first heard them. Oh the love songs I played thinking of past lovers. (Donna Summers-love to love you baby,Whitney Houston's-I believe in you & me, I will always love you, Etta James-At Last) The heartbreak songs (Etta James- All I could do was cry or I'd rather go blind. Whitney Houston-I learned from the best) The songs that make you get up and Dance (Chuck Brown-bustin loose,Run Joe.  Donna Summers-Last Dance, Bad Girls, She works hard for the money).

The artists mentioned above among others have at one point in time resulted in my experiencing of a musical orgasm. (see definition above)  Musiq soulchild's "So Beautiful "comes to mind. It is something about a song that speaks exactly what you are feeling or the music is so melodic that it carries you outside of your body and lifts you to some alternative universe. Whew!! I'm getting excited. I think we've all experienced it. Its like the first time you hear it, you're like where the fuck has this song been all my life. hahaha But seriously music heals the soul. As a music lover, I enjoy various forms and genres of music. The music you enjoy also tells alot about you. I would love to hear some of your fav songs, ones that have erupted into a musical orgasm for you. ;)  Place your songs on my facebook page or tag me as you post on your timeline.

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These recents deaths are a reminder that each day isnt promised and you never know when your TIME will come. There is a saying I live by, Life is too short to be anything but HAPPY. So do what makes you happy, love the one who lives to make you smile, get freaky sometimes, and travel. Collectively they are a recipe for happiness.  

Untill next week.

Be Strong. Be Confident. Be You.

Sincerely,

Sinnamon

Maxi Dress:Rainbow, white cardigan:Target, belt-Target, necklace:old, clutch-thrifted, red sandals-burlington(old)

Shirt & Belt:Thrifted, Grey Tights-Burlington, sandals-Burlington(old), Earrings-Ebay, Bracelet-Tiffany & Co.(gift)

Up close pic so you can see the ruffle detail on the shirt


Wedding pic, I matched the decor. Dress-burlington, bracelets (old), shoes(payless.com)


4th Diva of the Week: Kajuana Love from Birmingham,AL. Dress-Simply Fashion, Accessories-mizoutlet.com, Sandals-Avenue(in store purchase).
















Friday, May 11, 2012

Seeing is Believing!!

Quote of the Day: The question isn’t who’s going to let me; it’s who is going to stop me. - Ayn Rand

Hello Curvy Divas,

Welcome to Friday and your weekly date with "Sin". ;) This week has been uneventful for the most part. I had finals this week and Lawd have mercy(excuse my "accent" I'm southern) but I took the hardest test of my LIFE. Which is saying alot because it seems as if I've been in school all my life. This week I had my psychopharmacology exam which focused on psychiatric medications and when I tell you I sat down at that desk,looked at the test and said aloud WTF. Normally I would have been embarassed but the nods from my classmates' heads confirmed they were equally unamused by the sheer madness of the exam. I said a prayer, answered those I knew and answered "C" for everything else. Isnt the rule, when in doubt pick C. Well I surely doubted and I'm pretty sure at least 40% of my answers were C. Thankfully I did well on my other assignments so I should still pass the course. What about you, How was your week? Did your boss get on your nerves or was it that stupid co-worker who always finds a way to get under your skin? Anyway its the weekend and you know what that means, you have time to unwind, wind down, or get crunk.

So this week's topic is Seeing is Believing. I came across this idea for one because I'm a visual person and two because I've discussed with a friend about getting together and doing a VISION BOARD party. If you are an Oprah or Iyanla Vanzant fan, you know what I'm talking about. If not it is a collage of your dreams and desired future. The premise is visually focusing on your dreams helps move you closer to them. Some people place pictures of themselves with a cap and gown to represent completing a degree or certification. Others place dream homes, cars, or kids. Whatever floats your boat.
 The process of creating the board helps you identify what you want. It goes from being just an IDEA to something tangible(you can actually see it).  One very important key to vision boards is ACTION. The bible says faith without work is dead. Allow the board to get your creative juices flowing. Think of how you can make those images come to life. There is nothing to it but to DO it. It is my vision that everyone achieves that which they want and deserve. Do you want a life you can be proud of? Show me. Try the vision board and send me a pic. I would love to share it with the rest of the readers.

No pics from me this week but I will have one next week. Also if there is a topic you want to know more about  just write me. Also next week Im thinking of adding a midweek blog entitled Girly Gossip. Let me know what you think. See you next week, until then DREAM BIG.

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Be Strong. Be Confident. Be You.

Sincerely,

Sinnamon
3rd Diva of the Week is Vonia Grace from Hattiesburg, MS. The entire ensemble(dress,accesories, and shoes came from Eve Marie's, a small boutique in Hattiesburg)

Monday, May 7, 2012

P.S. Body Beautiful: Act Like a Woman, Think like a Man part 2

P.S. Body Beautiful: Act Like a Woman, Think like a Man part 2: Quote of the Day: When you know better, you do better.-Oprah
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Act Like a Woman, Think like a Man part 2

Quote of the Day: When you know better, you do better.-Oprah

Hello Curvy Divas,

Hopefully you enjoyed your weekend and now you're ready to get back on your grind this Monday. I had the opportunity to see the Cirque de Soleil perform Immortal(a tribute to Michael Jackson) this sunday. Let me just say it was high energy, then sentimental, and ended with a BANG!!! Great show and accurate depiction of his life from childhood up until his death. The OOTN photos below are from the show.

Now on to the topic at hand. After pondering over the characters from the Think Like a Man movie, I realized that I've been several characters throughout my life. In my late teens and early 20s I had the mindset of Megan Good's character. Although I didnt sleep with every guy I met, I did attempt to use my body to attract them. I thought that's what guys wanted and so that's what I flaunted. Around my junior year of college I began to meet a different caliber of men of whom I enjoyed stimulating conversations and dates to musems instead of just the normal dinner and movie. This is when a shift occurred and I began to realize that guys that I attracted physically were not mentally up to par if you know what I mean. They werent dumb, but not the smartest either.

It was also in my mid 20s that I also began a serious relationship and some of my other "traits" began to show. Sometimes as women when we have something good, we want to keep it by any means necessary. I was in a loving relationship and I began as Gabrielle Union's character, the ride or die chick. There was nothing I wouldnt do for my boo. As time progressed I began to neglect my own wishes and desires just so my boo was happy. I began to lose myself in the relationship and forgot about my needs. It was then that I blossomed into Wendy William's character the bitter and bossy woman who attempts to control everything in her relationship. Those traits are ultimately what ended my relationship. It took a lot of soul searching but I've learned from my mistakes in an effort
to not allow them to repeat themselves. Woooosaah!! It's hard to think about it even now as I write this. But we live and we learn.

I would like to personally thank everyone who wrote in and shared your stories and character traits. I was shocked that some people admitted to sleeping with various men for love or just so they wouldnt feel alone. It takes alot of courage to look at yourself honestly and identify those things that need improvement. Admitting you have a problem is the first step, the second is doing something about it. In all things honesty and love will prevail. Be honest with yourself about what you want and need in a relationship. Secondly love yourself first and you wont have to search outside of yourself to find it. See ya later this week with our weekly blog and the new Diva of the Week.

Be Strong. Be Confident. Be You.

Sincerely,

Sinnamon
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sheer shirt:lane bryant, neon skirt:Forever 21 plus, Blk Wedges:payless





Friday, May 4, 2012

P.S. Body Beautiful: Thank God it's Friday!!!!!!

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Thank God it's Friday!!!!!!

Quote of the Day: Life is short, wear your party pants! – Loretta LaRoche


Hello Curvy Divas,

Thanks GOD its Friday. For many it's the end of the work week and the beginning of time to wind down. How will you end your week? having a drink with your girls, dinner or a movie with your boo, washing your hair AGAIN,catching up on your favorite shows or curling up with a good book? Well I have a busy week planned so be prepared for more OsOTN. Friday night I'm scheduled to attend a graduation dinner, saturday a Cinco De Mayo inspired party, and finally sunday to see the IMMORTAL tour. It will be jam packed but I'm excited.

Today's blog is about stepping outside your comfort zone. The pics are a tunic worn as a dress. I wouldnt actually wear THIS tunic out(I've worn others in my past)but it was my way to encourage stepping out of my zone. Another thing I never do is not match. yeah I know color blocking and mismatching patterns and colors is "in" but I always found that hard. So this blog and the pics are my way of TRYING something I'm not usually comfortable with.

 What is your fashion faux pas? Do you avoid skinny jeans,tights, showing off your legs, arms, or wearing certain colors? I challenge you today to try something new. It can be something you've admired that others could do, something you thought you would never try, or something you've wanted to try but was too scared. Carpe Deim-seize the day. If it doesnt turn out as you thought it should,SO WHAT. Life is meant to be lived. You never know, you might LIKE it.


Be Strong. Be Confident. Be You.


Sincerely,

Sinnamon
Facebook: Sin Namon(psbodybeautiful)
Twitter: psbodybeautiful

Dress/Tunic:Ross Dress for Less. Belt: Target. Shoes:Payless
2nd Diva of the Week is Nikki from Mobile,AL. Congrats girl!!!! Blazer-Sears, shirt-old navy, skinny jeans-Forever 21, Shoes-Target.

Thursday, May 3, 2012

P.S. Body Beautiful: Act Like a Woman, Think like a Man Part 1

P.S. Body Beautiful: Act Like a Woman, Think like a Man Part 1: Quote of the Day: Do you want to meet the love of your life? Look in the mirror. – Byron Katie Hello Curvy Divas, I'm sure by now ...

Act Like a Woman, Think like a Man Part 1

Quote of the Day: Do you want to meet the love of your life? Look in the mirror. – Byron Katie

Hello Curvy Divas, I'm sure by now many of you have had the opportunity to see Steve Harvey's movie, Think Like a Man, I'm interested to hear your thoughts? Personally I enjoyed the movie despite it being a shameless plug for Harvey's book. Kevin Hart should be commended for his natural ability to infuse comedy with everyday life. Honestly he carried the movie to me. Also enjoyed the fact that Megan Good had the opportunity to go from the femme fatale to a respectable woman with standards for herself and body. However,this blog was not created to critique the movie, instead I wanted to explore some of the everyday issues that many of us may face within relationships. Let's start by identifying our own role. If you had to choose a characters in movie, who do you relate the most with while in a relationship?

Megan Good: (Ms. I put that thing on him and he keeps coming back) Female with a nice body who always uses it as bait to catch a guy and then wonders why he never calls or makes you his girlfriend.
Tariji P. Henson: (Ms. I dont need a man because I have my own, but it sure would feel good to be held sometimes) Independent Woman who is successful and has an actual list of unrealistic requirements that a man must have to date her.
Gabrielle Union:(Ms. Ride or Die chick) Stands by her man through thick and thin. Always caters to what he wants and at times forgets her own happiness.
Regina Hall:(Ms. I just need a good man to help me raise my son) Single mother working hard to raise a child but still seeking the one.
Wendy Williams:(Ms. Bossy) She wears the pants in the relationship by controlling every aspect of her husbands life.
  or
Kevin Hart: the weak person in the relationship who does everything your partner tells you. You like having someone else in control because you are not the take charge kind of person.
Terrence J: the mama's boy/daddy's girl. You love your mom/dad and their opinion/approval means so much to you. Your parent thinks the world of you as well and thinks NO ONE is ever good enough for their baby.
Michael Ealy: the dreamer who is constantly inspired by some new idea or profession at least once a twice a year. Most of the time you are broke because you are in between jobs.
Jerry Ferrara: self absorbed and feel that those closest to you should only cater to your needs. you lack initiative and drive to set and achieve goals. you wanna be a big kid forever.
Romany Malco: The player who knows exactly what to say to make a woman feel safe, comfortable, or loved. The only problem he does this with every woman he meets.
Chris Brown: The shameless hoe. always identifies the opposite sex as just a "friend" and uses every opportunity to sleep with all his "friends".

  Ok so I know this is long so I will have to break it up and do a part two. I would love to hear who you most relate with. either post below in the comments section,via FB:Sin Namon(psbodybeautiful), or Twitter (psbodybeautiful).

 Part 1 of this series focuses on the individual first because in order to relate with others, you must first know what you bring to the table. Part 2 will be posted Monday containing which character I identified with, an OOTD, and tips on how to establish and maintain a healthy relationship.  Also check back tomorrow(Fridaaaaaaaay) for my usual weekly post and the Diva of the Week.

  Be Strong. Be Confident. Be You.


Sincerely,

  Sinnamon

Saturday, April 28, 2012

Am I My Worst Critic?

Quote of the Day: It’s not your job to like me, it’s mine. – Byron Katie.

Hello My Curvy Divas, Do I look fat in this? Can you see my stomach in this shirt? Omg, my butt looks huge in this dress. I dont wanna go out, I have NOTHING to wear. Lord if you just help me lose about 20lbs I wont ask for nothing else. Girl I'm about to start eating right, I'm trying to get my body right for summer. She look a mess in that, she too fat to wear that. Are you guilty of saying at least one or two of these statements? I know I am.

 As women in general we are super judgemental, overly critical, and plain right harsh when it comes to ourselves and others. The best way to detect a self loathing woman is to watch her try on clothes. I guarantee, nothing will ever fit her right,she will always blame her body, and put herself down. I know, I've been there too. An epiphany came for me about 6 months ago, I went on a diet and lost a significant amount of weight. I had not reached my goal but was well on my way and the results were noticeable. Something began to happen as I lost weight, besides the fact that my old clothing was falling off, I began to feel uncomfortable. It was not until I gained most of the weight back that I realized I had grown comfortable in my size 18/20. It was also then that I realized that I did not think I deserved to be smaller. My AHA moment came when I learned that in order to be successful with my weight loss goal or esteem goals, I had to learn to LOVE myself at whatever weight I was. (insert sigh here) We always feel that things will be better WHEN we lose the weight.

Its crazy because I always believed I loved myself because I always treated myself to nice things, traveled, and indulged in whatever my heart desired but I was mistaken. The new love I have for myself is patient when I make mistakes, kind when I try on something unflattering, and always there when faced with adversity. My new love is no longer a feeling but an act of kindness that I extend to myself continuously through encouraging words and surrounding myself with people who are positive and supportive.

  Today I present you with a challenge. The challenge to love yourself despite your circumstance,looks, weight,or current self esteem. It may not be easy but honey, you are WORTH it. Today's photos are not my most flattering by some people's standards but I dont care because I love me and this plus size body is BEAUTIFUL!

If you cant love yourself, how the hell you gonna love anybody else? Can I get an Amen?- Rupaul

Facebook: Sin Namon(p.s. body beautiful)
Twitter: p.s.body beautiful

Sincerely, Sinnamon

p.s. Diva of the week will be back next week. I have decided on next week's diva but keep your submissions coming for future blog entries.

Wear your Confidence like a Cape!

Thursday, April 19, 2012

Spring Forward, Fall Back

Quote of the Day: The secret of getting ahead is getting started. – Sally Berger

Hello My Curvy Divas,

Today the weather was really nice in the DMV so I decided to do some thrifting. I should have woke up earlier because when I arrived,everything looked picked over. Today was SALE day, and apparently everyone was on the prowl. I did however manage to get some basic pieces and 2 vintage shirts. Im warming up to vintage clothing. maybe you can give me ideas on how to wear them. Anywho, for those who have never thrifted, you should try it. It's a great way to find unique pieces,after a good washing and/or trip to the cleaners before wearing. Well enjoy my OOTD(outfit of the day),stores are noted. I found it to be fun and comfortable much like my personality. Also I'm featuring my first DIVA of the WEEK. keep the submissions coming because you may be next.

Check me out on Facebook: Sinnamon(p.s. body beautiful)
Twitter: PSBodybeautiful
Email:sinsation617@gmail.com
striped shirt: Rainbow, Pink skirt:Old Navy, rose sandals: rugged wearhouse
DIVA OF THE WEEK: Catina from Milwakee, WI. Shirt -Discovery,Pants-Ashley Stewart,Jewelry -Ashley Stewart,Belt-Discovery,Shoes -New Mode. Congrats Tina!!!!





Be Strong. Be Confident. Be You.



Sincerely, Sinnamon